ua qhua saib neeg laug nce hauv toj - ua ntxhais ua vauv

Items needed for the event.

2 bottled drinks, can be ginger ale, ginsing, beer, etc., No soda
Ib lub cawv mo, ib lu cawv txheeb ntawg 1 small pack rice with a small peice of meat, wrapped together
1 noob ncoob
1 bundle of incense, ib pob xyaab
ib tsuag ntawv

Give nyaj ntxhais vauv $40
and If you have not given nyaj tsaav ntuj, then give $20

notes
There are two types of noob ncoob
Rha - with designes in the middle
Lab - just red center

request cob tshaav ntuj
remember to give them half the meat afterwards. In our case we just give him the whole thing, because we live far.

Request Qeej
you have to ask him to xyuas xau

pour him one small cup of beer and ask him to paab tshuab qeej xyuas xau
You should also give this person some of the meat. If you go as a group one person can give him the meat and the another person can give the other person his

ua thug cob tshaav ntug tsua tug ntxhais vauv

cawv txheej ntawg

1. Make sure the people you are representing have all their items.

Take all the items to the table where they are writting this infomation.
Give one of the drinks to the people at this table this is the cawv su . The other is the cawv txheej ntawg.
(I think they also take the ntawv from you)
Take this cawv along with the mov and nqaj for each couple you are representing to the cuab tsaav to ntawg cawv and mov nqaj.
Pour one cup for the cuaj tsaav and ask him to ntawg cawv and mov nqaj for each couple, remember to pour him one cup for each couple.
Nua yog ntxhais vauv (person's name) lub cawv txheej ntawg (He will drink it and proceed to ntawg the cawv, mov nqaj)
Pour the rest of the drink to the family of the deceased (Tsev tsom cuab) , ask them to help drink tug tsais vauv lug cawv.

Wait for the rooj su, they will call you to sit at the table at which time they will thank you and will drink the cawv su.

Then at the end of the night the event call ncej xub qeeg, they will call the names of the ntxhas vauv in which case you will need to go and answer.
They will say tug nxthais vauv ( Person's name ) ncej qeeg txhug koj lawm
When you go up they will had you one cawv and say saam saib los yog koj, seem saib los yog koj ca txai cawv moog haus verse
and a qeej and say saam saib los yog koj, seem saib los yog koj ca txai qeej moog tshuab verse2
The first thing you say is tsi yog kuv, (impling that you don't want song, tsi yuav zaaj)
If you don't want them to has zaaj then you say

If you want them to "has zaaj" then, when you go up you say tsi yog kuv le. Yog koj yig yig, then they know you want a zaaj. Then they will say zaaj paj qeeg
When this is done you will say "tsuav yog mej txiv qeej txiv nruag mej tas yog saam saib los yog kuv, seem saib los yog kuv, kev neeb kev tsaav tu sab los nyob txwj mej??? nawb" verse 3, then except the qeej and the cawv
If you don't know how to tshuaj qeej, then give the nyaj noob qais to the txiv qeej and tell him you don't know how to tshuaj mej meej tshuaj.