Parents Wishes and funeral topics

money from the funeral is to be split evenly among the eight siblings. After it's been used for funeral expenses.

The house is open to anyone who wants to live in it. If sold the profits are to be split evenly amoung the eight siblings

The items in the house is for anyone who wants them. split items evenly for everyone.

The two cars are to be sold and split evenly

Mom and dad's savings (currently held by Chao, Yee and Nou) shall be split evenly amoungs the 8 siblings

Two Hmong Silver Necklace (paug cais), one is worth some cash value save this one for Adam
One has no cash value anyone can claim it

one money belt (hlaab nyaj) anyone can claim

When Adam marries, whoever is holding mom's money, give $5800 to Adam as the bride price. If the bride price is more then 5800, and if mom and dad are no longer here, we each need to contribute to the cost. If they are still here they will take care of it.

When mom is not well she wants food that is soft or has been softened.

During mom's funeral she does not want the person who performs the event on Sunday night (txiv coj xais), but we can have a person to give us the blessing from mom . tsi yuav tug coj xais, Dlav tug foom coob moov tsua cov miv tub miv ntxhias xwb los tau

Mom does not want the cows (xob ntawg nyuj txua nam, tsi yuav tug tawj nug) Dad does want the first cow but he wants to use his own money to purchase it

Recording from Sept 25, 2021

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